I'm using Ealm at the moment.

I really, really like it.

To me, it's neither a feminine nor a masculine skin, but as a woman, I enjoy it's 'natural' theme, as opposed to so many of the technical or metal-type themes out there.
For those of you looking for skin ideas, how about some more nature-themed, or fantasy-themed skins? Or some with more muted colours (note necessarily pastel, but just not the typical metallics or blues).
I'd love a "sword and sorcery" theme, or an updated Egyptian theme.