No Prob Stumpy I figured as much. I did not explain in the best of terms.
As for the suggestions from ama02...I have powertoys and was able to fix the recycle bin problem on the desktop. As for the sound for the recycle bin I have gone into the sounds in the control panel and there is one listed for it just doesn't play when I empty the bin on objectdock. I even tried different sounds but they don't play for the recycle bin.

Do we have any more possible suggestions? I will try almost anything at this point, it is driving me nuts the sound doesn't play.