Man, people do like to pile on around here...
First,
I feel -> corrected misspelling, hate have a bug in my apology to wheel of all folks! -< we must offer Wheel an apology as he apparrently was correct about the whole dislexic thing. Wheel, you have my apologies for thinking that you were dangerously treading on the insensitive side for accusing Lord Pinko of lieing. Of course I still do think your were dangerously treading on the insensitive side

, but must credit that insensitivity may well have been insight.
Now for the pig pile. Mumble, you have this one blind spot that when people poke it becomes , 'Say Hello to My Leetle Friend Time'. And then everyone who views you as a voice of reason are ecstatic to find you declaring open season on someone.
There is nothing wrong with adopting personnas on the internet. There is something wrong in assuming you can trust everything you are told, internet or not. (best example being ... 'I have a plan')
He didn't chase members away, some members got themselves banned. Lets have a little personal responsibility for our own actions here. I'ld also point out that Lord Pinko's presence increased my participation not decreased it, and as you yourself have pointed out Mumble, although an instigator, he took a lot of abuse without returning in kind.
Now, I don't think you stabbed him in the back by defending the dearly departed. But I think you both feel as if you have been played for a chump by the other. It is not so, you have both just made some incorrect assumptions about each other, and such is life.
So can't we all just get along, sit in a circle holding hands, and sing Cumbaya now?