Who Where What happened

You've probably heard that title a thousand times but I have been having some trouble with a couple of icons I've been trying to upload. Thanks to snowman, I found out what I was doing wrong the first time but after I fixed the problem I uploaded 2 seperate icons to misc.icons and then received the (your work has been accepted please allow 5 days bit). I went to my gallery and there they were just as normal, then I uploaded the same 2 icons but in .png format to objectdock section and went to my gallery and there they were but the 2 I uploaded for misc.icons section were gone. Each time I upload something, I go to my skins and check to see that they are in moderation but this time the only ones in moderation are the objectdock png's. I know that posting the same looking icons in 2 diferent places is redundant but what I would like to know is what happened to them. Another thing that I have been experiencing in my gallery with these 2 icons are that the old screenshot was still showing even after being deleted and uploaded new shot. So if you get multiple uploads of the same thing, its because, to me it looks like you didn't get the right thing. And Another thing, I have uploaded 3 different avatars, the next day I check, there gone, I upload again, I check later, they are gone again. I haven't received any email about these being accepted or rejected and both times they were in my gallery and my skins in moderation, now gone again.  I posted this to Stardock support, how it ended up here ? who knows