Good Lord, girl, where have you been?
So glad you didn't add 'all my life' to the end of that... Bebi could've come back with "I wasn't born for the 1st 3/4's of it."
As for the borked user pic, I prefer skins without them, so have little to no idea how to unbork it, sorry. Somebody like Lightstar, vStyler or Kitty/Vampothika would be good people to ask, however.