Ok...that helped...still have a little left to fix. I have the glass speed dial, now the tips above have fixed the title bar...i have an foggy glass apperance left in the speed dial...i'm playing around with the settings, but i still can't get the glass effect back.
I tried using the exclude function to ignore Opera....which was a disaster, do not do that, its horrible. Its almost like i need another option on the transparency tab to adjust transparency for the back of the windows