Webgizmos,
Thank you for replying to me and yes I am aware that the programs (wb, ip, etc) need to be
installed in order to be able to use the theme manager and Philly's suites were not links but
actual suites however, I have done exactly what you mentioned which is to download a suite
manually because it became too frustrating dealing with theme manager.
I have since uninstalled theme suite program and a few other programs that came with Object Desktop
package for I basically use, wb, ip, wallpaper, object dock and a few widgets. Since I became a customer
WB has been updated to a very nice program where you can change the color, textures, font etc.
Thank you very much for taking time to help me 
Have a wonderful week !
Elizabeth