Don't know Doc, but I get nervous when anything wants to remotely control explorer.
I can't blame you. It'd make me nervous too.
Maybe connect to SD support, and the Online Armor folks...together they might figure out what's up. I've never received any type of warning like that.
Back in '08 (LINK) you posted that the av you use is NOD32... you might have uninstalled it since, but maybe some remnant of it remained? Could that be giving the message? Just a thought from someone who knows far less about this stuff than you...
Wish I could be more of a help to you old friend...I think maybe Shirley at SD Support would be more of a help than I.