Here is what I am writing to them. Any suggestions?
I have a couple problems with your having my work on your site. Firstly, I would have appreciated you asking in advance. Not doing so borderlines constituting a rip. Secondly, I don't want direct downloads from your site. If you would like to continue having my product on your site, I respectfully ask that ALL downloads be linked/mirrored to my site. No Direct Downloads!!!. The site my work is on (Wincustomize.com) gives me ratings, download counts, and rankings, as well as a title and promotions. Downloads from your site offers nothing to me in return.
If you conform to the above constraints, I will gladly allow you to showcase my work, otherwise I will be forced to ask that you remove all my skins and then I will follow up to see that they are removed.
While I do appreciate your interest, my own interests aren't served by you allowing direct downloads. As a reputable freeware site, I would think you would know to ask In Advance before hosting other people's work.