So who do I have to kill to get some kind of response?
It's been two weeks now, apparently my Wallpaper has 1 star,
but zero downloads and is not in the Wallpaper Gallery.
So obviously someone has looked at it, but no response of any kind.
Check in your junk mail folder. An email goes out with each approval/rejection so you should have already received it. If it's approved a link to it will be included.
The only items rejected are for unacceptable content ( porn, hate, etc.) or permission issues. Approved wallpapers will go either to the Main Gallery or to your Personal Page. All wallpapers are "voted" on by the moderators. No individual moderator will be responsible for sending it to the Personal Pages vs the Main Gallery.