Hey Heman, I'll be 60 this year and have earned every year, every tragady, every happiness, every wrinkle and every sickness. I thank G-d for everything both good and bad. I had a free spirit to do what I wanted, and well to be truthful I messed up on the health front. I look how I look and am happy to be alive to look this way. My heart goes out every day to those who have it so much worse than me. I get down yes, and when I do I try to not have a negative affect on others. When I'm happy I love to spread a smile every where I can. Smiling is healing. It's hard to hate or feel very bad when you laugh or smile.
"When you have the least, pass it forward to someone in worse need." by me.
See not much difference between me and my avatar.