We grew up in home town America going to public school, riding the bus, eating at Bob's Diner and going to football games on Friday night and the Drive-In on Saturday night then attending Church on Sunday.
Obama was raised in Indonesia only from the age of 6 to 10. Then he went to school in Hawaii, Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, etc. 4 years, as a child, out of 47. And, unless you attended high school football games when you were in elementary school, your comparison is utterly incorrect. He did all the things you talk about, as an American student and citizen in the same public schools and classes all of us did. Football games, the works.
He has attended Catholic Church EVERY SUNDAY for twenty years (since he was Baptized in 1988), which is more than most American Christians can say. And just as long as George W. Bush has been a clean and sober Methodist. 
Before that, he was non-denominational as his parents and grandparents were non-practicing Christians and his biological father (who he met only once for a month before his death) had long before turned from Islam to atheism.
his white grandparents raised him in Indonesia
His mother and stepfather raised him for those four years in Indonesia. His "white grandparents" raised him in the United States after that.
and he's always had the golden spoon lifestyle.
Actually, this is utterly absurd. It is well documented how hard he and his family worked to see Obama make it to college and through his graduation from Columbia and Harvard Law.
If you can't be bothered to learn the truth about both candidates, then you are letting you vote serve as a simple ideological tool, rather than its intended purpose. If you identify more with McCain and will thus vote for him, so be it, but to denigrate Obama's life of struggle with utter fallacies is disingenuous and unnecessary.
Again, I'll use wikipedia just because the summaries are peer-vetted and contain complete citations to the material presented within. And therefore it is easy for all to see if I have misquoted or misread anything.
Barack and his family
His maternal grandparents