Chances are that you don't like my comments when I rate you a 4. I would have to hurt your feelings. |
I stand by my position! If you are going to rate something with a low rating so the general public (the majority) won't see it, at least offer some CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. If you feel you must rate a skin that low and can only offer hurtful comments then don't rate, because as I have just learned, ratings can severely impact who sees it. If you're a moderator & it's not good enough, JUST REJECT IT!
I would rather have my humble work rejected (because i know you get no explanation with rejections) than to have it accepted for a limited audience who have no constructive criticism at all, or just
" Not my style. Too simple. Too young"
What the hell is that supposed to mean? How do I interpret that when I'm trying again on another work? I don't have a clue on what direction to go in for another work from comments like that.
Myself as 1 paying customer who decided to try & get into this community have cruised this message board long enough now to find it is NOT a community dedicated to the elevation and exploration of others talents but a community comprised of clique's, ill-will, pettiness, nastiness, jealousy and hurt feelings.
The reponsibilty for that lies at the top for not directing the community in a more nurturing direction and leading by example.
To Brad Wardell in particular as CEO/Founder or whatever the title (no disrespect intended), I think it is up to you to make this a place people want to come to. It's your baby, your responsibility, this from a paying customer.
I for one started checking out this board as a newbie thinking I would get valuable tips, an occasional laugh, interesting discussions but alas it was not all good and I too have been drawn into the fray.
If I were in a position of authority here, I would promptly make it known that all threads of this nature and mischief in general that causes discontent and strife would not be allowed and promptly delete this and all similar threads, mischievious surfers, etc...
I have seen many threads re: people leaving in anger and removing their work and seen some saying good 'riddins. Is that the way it really had to go? Did the moderators think these people were so invaluable as a contributor and revenue source that they could not quash the source or their angst before it got to that point?
I can't remember seeing any threads re: people saying Hey, glad to be here, I've received so much encouragement and help. I see i've come to the right place.
And for those who would say if I don't like it then leave. TOO BAD! I paid my money, I'm here. I have an opinion as valid as any other and I'll let it be known as long as permitted to.
Confucios say:
When a dog comes up to you wagging his tail, he is looking to be petted or to play or something.
If you ignore him, he'll eventually go to another person to play with.
If you kick him, he'll become a mean dog
Maybe that's a bad analogy. Just my opinion
If anyone can offer some constructive criticism regarding my work, please look it up & do so. That's what I'm looking for.
If you don't have anything constructive to say about my work SHUT UP