VERY SAD DAY

By on February 2, 2010 7:02:58 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

scruf57

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My Mother passed away at 77 years of age. She was my hero and taught me how to withstand life's trials!! She has been in pain everyday of her life for the last 32 years and never complained-she handled everything that life punished her with(multiple sclerosis, diverticulitis, scoliosis, arthritis, macular degeneration and lastly the one that got her-that DAMN alzheimers. This is the saddest and hardest time I have ever gone through, but I have to stay strong for my Dad- He will be so lost-he has taken care of her for so many years-Please say a prayer for him-THANK YOU!
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February 2, 2010 7:06:41 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Sorry for Your loss, My thoughts are with You and Your Farther.

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February 2, 2010 7:12:57 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Thoughts and prayers to you and your dad.

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February 2, 2010 7:20:33 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

My deepest sympathies to you and your father. 

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February 2, 2010 7:21:44 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

You have my sincere condolences. 

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February 2, 2010 7:24:46 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Sorry for your loss. 

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February 2, 2010 7:25:44 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

scruf....words are inadequate, but good thoughts and prayers never are. So they're given freely to your father and you. Grieve the way your grief dictates....help and love your father.

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February 2, 2010 7:39:58 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I am reading your kind words with tears rolling down my face--Thank you all so much it really does help

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February 2, 2010 7:46:16 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

My sincere condolences.

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February 2, 2010 8:12:18 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

so sorry to hear this scruf.....  ...she must have been an incredible woman to withstand all those challenges....and still pass on strength to you too....you and your Dad will see each other through this and gain strength from each other....and I'll be keeping you both in my thoughts....

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February 2, 2010 8:12:32 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I know you pain since my wife passed. You will need support as I know this is so hard for you however not taking anything away from your pain  your father is going to need more than one can imagine and you will have to be a big part of that. Be strong for yourself and your father. Grieving does it's own thing and sometimes it controls you. As Doc says it best "Grieve the way your grief dictates" The tears will roll down your face and let them as they are rolling down mine now. God bless you, your father and the entire family. Nothing more I can say will help your pain and sorrow except to take each minute, hour, and day as they come and gain a small amount of strength from each.

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February 2, 2010 8:27:16 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I would like to add that Doc, during a phone conversation with him gave me those words as he has been through it and I live by them and don't fight the grief when it comes on. It still comes to often but I just let the tears flow and let it do it thing so to speak.

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February 2, 2010 8:29:29 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

 

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February 2, 2010 8:36:51 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

You have my sympathies, Susan.

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February 2, 2010 9:03:19 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Susan, you are in my prayers. So is your Dad. Keep your chin up.  [e digicons]:karma:[/e]

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February 2, 2010 9:37:37 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Thank you everyone for the thoughtful and encouraging words-we meet with the funeral home tomorrow-it will be tough but all of your kindness really helps!!!

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February 2, 2010 9:39:18 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Deepest condolances on your great loss. May the Lord with with you and your father and bring you solace.

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February 2, 2010 9:41:54 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers go out to you and to your father. I'm on that journey with my mother now who suffers from dementia and alzheimers.

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February 2, 2010 9:46:46 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums
I am so, so, sorry scruf57 to hear of this my deepest condolence's on your loss, my thoughts and prayes are with you and your family at this sad time
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February 2, 2010 10:14:01 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

It's a horrible thing to have to go through, especially for your father. My parents were together 58 years when my father died. All of the sudden, there is a huge emptiness. As everybody is saying, all you can do is endure it and let time pass. My best wishes to you and your father.

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February 2, 2010 10:20:34 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

you and your family have my deepest condolences

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February 2, 2010 10:30:11 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Very sorry to here of your loss.  My mom is 80 and has the Alzheimers.  It is a terrible thing to watch her slowly slip. My prayers to you and your Dad. Stay strong and stay close to your faith.

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February 2, 2010 10:57:28 PM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

My mom passed away Dec 5, 2009; and she had Alzheimers as well.  So hard to to see.  My thoughts are with you both.

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February 3, 2010 1:01:38 AM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

I have had epilepsy all of my life and was just diagnosd with multiple sclerosis 2 years ago and am just a little over half way through stage 1 of MS. I understand the pain MS can put someone through. Though you are in pain and in tears now... what you and your dad will come to remember is all the joy... smiles... laughter... and all the good memories you had with her. That is what will stay in your heart forever. That is what will remain with you for the rest of your lives which will one day once again bring you smiles again. My hope for you is that day will come again soon. My condolences to you both. Rememer this... As long as you love the one you've lost... you never lost the one you've loved.

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February 3, 2010 1:13:12 AM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

very sorry to hear this. will be in my thoughts

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February 3, 2010 1:57:23 AM from WinCustomize Forums WinCustomize Forums

Sorry for your loss..My thoughts are with you both.

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