This is whining.
Let me give you something that merits having your 'gears ground'.
Try working at a Christian based business. Your immediate supervisor is also an elder at your church, which has it's home at the same said business. You're recently born again and baptized in the local river, lead the church's praise team, writing songs for the church, teaching the youth group and asked to become an elder yourself. You're neck deep in your new found faith and loving it.
Then you find out your boss is looking at porn...teen porn on the internet...AT WORK. How? Because he admits it. He looks you in the eye and tells you he see's nothing wrong with looking at a little 't***y' once in a while. he brags about it. Every other day he wants to talk about it. You keep your mouth shut, even though you have to face this guys wife and son.You go to your pastor who tells you that you need to learn how to handle this situation to be a good Christian. You do what he says, but it gets no where and your boss is locking himself up more and more in his office to look at more porn.
The whole time, there are about 200 or so kids running around the place. all ages, in the locker rooms, pool, etc., that you and your 'boss' are responsible for. Hundreds of family's have paid good money to be members of this organization and they trust you and the organization.
So after months, you go back to the pastor repeatedly and finally tell him it's way out of control and you need him to step in. He does. he sits down with the both of you and lets the other man berate and yell at you. Tell you how disappointed he is in you for going to the pastor. The Pastor says nothing. When it's all said and done, he has convinced the pastor he only did it once and he'll never do it again. Then they both go the person who manages this branch of the organization and tell them 'his' story and you are called in and told you made a mountain out of a molehill.
You ask 'him' and his boss if they would like to go to his computer and see who's exagurating. He immediately freaks and she says 'no'. You ask her if she is comfortable having him around the teenagers, the girls, going into the locker-rooms and such. She tells you to let it go. So does the pastor.
And you are taken off the praise team. Elders come up to you and tell you that because you are from the north, a yankee, you don't know how things work. That you need to shut up because it 'doesn't concern you, it's his bussiness, why are you trying to bring this out into the light, let God handle it' and eventually you are outcast.
Finally, through severe stenosis of the spine, after you have quit the job because he is STILL looking at porn and no one will listen, you find yourself paralyzed from the waist down twice. You go in for major surgery on your spine and...no one from your church comes. Your pastor doesn't come. Only the pastor from your sister-in-laws church who you have never met before, but greatly appreciate. You appreciate it even though, at this point in your life where you have taken 40 some years to turn your life over to God, you have no faith in God, the church, or community. And you drive by the place you worked at least a dozen times or more a week because it's a 1/4 mile from your house, you have no choice. And you see his truck in the lot. You see it there at 8 in the morning and at 2 in the morning when you know he has no business being there, because he can't do what he does on the computer at his house around his family. And it makes you sick when you see the hundreds of kids going in and out.
That really grinds my gears.